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Here are my top things for making my life easier :

Stopping trying to make things easier. Use discomfort as a compass. See number 2.

Doing really hard things. I ran 50km in April.[1] Now walking to the bus is easier.

Letting go trying to control things. Your organs run without a single thought being devoted to them. Rather than overthinking everything, pretend it’s like your heartbeat and let it happen.

Cutting out negative crap. Negative food, negative people, negative news sources (all of the news). All cut.

Talking to myself. I write 750 words per day no questions asked. Even if I don’t want to. Most of it is talking to myself. I’m now my own best friend.

Fewer decisions. Ever been to an ice cream shop and struggled to make a choice? That used to be me. Now the first flavor that comes into my mind is getting devoured. I also threw out my closet and bought 3 plain shirts. No one ever says anything.

Sleeping more. No alarms. Earlier bedtimes. More naps. It’s a superpower. My awake time is 40x better when I’ve slept well.

What are the best ways to make your life easier?

Loving myself. Another superpower. We’re too hard on ourselves. Now I remind myself each day I love myself. Bad day? Look in the mirror. Into your own eyes. Tell that pretty face how much you love you.

Creating. Creation is setting the ideas in your mind free. Trade a portion of your consumption time for creating and you’ll start to see the world differently. Everything is an inspiration.

Realizing no one really cares. Go for a drive. Go for a walk. You see the old lady carrying her groceries? She lives life as beautiful and as complicated as yours. Do you think she cares what you’re going to do tomorrow? Go and do your thing. No one will care as much as you. So you better make it damn good. Impress yourself for the sake of it.

Damn, I love writing. I’m charged up. Be careful with number 9, especially before bed.

Time for me to follow my own advice. Number 7 here I come, baby!

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