15 life-changing lessons people most often learn too late in life
There
are many kinds of different experiences in one's life: happiness, sorrow, ups and
downs, bitterness, bitterness, and saltiness. They play different roles and
effects. People's emotions are ups and downs and show five changes: worry,
thinking, sadness, fear, and surprise.
Good information comes and makes good
changes in the human body. Bad information can make bad changes in the human
body. No matter what information comes from the outside world, we should let it
go, see through it, want to open up, take it up, and put it down so that we can
have a better safe, and happy life, happy every day, contented.
If you have
insatiable greed and endless desire, you will be sad and miserable for a
lifetime, and will not send others happy and smiling words. The result can only
be sad and gone.
15 Powerful Life Lessons Everyone Should Learn
1. Nothing is eternal
We
always think that our life is still very long. According to our age, we can't
even think too far. But in fact, everything we ordinary people do, meet, and
build is temporary. This experience is really shocking! Your pet is temporary;
your relationships are temporary; what you buy is temporary Nothing is eternal.
The
things you have complete control over are the things you have witnessed. We all
want to live forever, and we all want to be forever, but everything you do will
disappear and be forgotten at some time.
2. Life is not fair to get used to it
If
you look forward to other answers, I'm sorry that this fact will disappoint
you. The opportunity for a promotion may belong to those who follow the boss,
although you are more qualified and work harder; the girl you like may prefer
the scum, although you think you are more suitable for her.
You
experience life from your own perspective, so you're biased anyway. We are not
living in a perfect world. Even if you live in a perfect world, it will not pay
too much attention to you as an individual.
There are 8 billion people around
us and the world doesn't owe you anything, just because you think you deserve
it, but that doesn't mean you will get it.
3. Family is more important than friends
We
can't choose our own family, but no one is willing to give more for you like
them. Friends are amazing, you can have many friends, but the family is special,
and now many people ignore this.
When
friends and you fight together, no one will really take risks for you, only
family members are willing to see you as more important than themselves.
Don't
take it for granted, spend more time with your parents while they are still
alive, communicate with your brothers and sisters, and don't let the
relationship cool down. Of course, spend time with children, because they need
you most.
4. How others treat you is a reflection.
It
is a famous saying of Confucius, an ancient thinker, and educator that we should
do to others what we don't want. If you don't want to be treated like this,
don't treat others like that.
It's
strange when you realize that people's attitude towards you depends on
yourself, not others. But the facts are what, how you present yourself, what
you think of yourself, and what kind of person you are, and that's up to you.
You
can choose to grow and learn. As an individual, you are the sum of your
experiences and beliefs. When you fully accept a different environment, your
view of the world around you will change.
Imagine
if you move to a place where no one knows you, wear different clothes, listen
to different music, say different things, and change your interests, the people
you meet will accept the other you because this is the first time they
recognize you.
So
from now on, please respect yourself and stick to your faith. Don't be pointed
out by others, because these little things will trouble you when you are old.
5. Rewards define
Today's
efforts will be rewarded in the future. Many people in their 80s often recall
the stupid choices they made, especially the time they wasted. When you
remember the past, it's always easier to see where you can do better.
Many
people think that if they had more strategies, they could have been in a better
position than they are now. They all regret that they didn't read much when
they were young, but they all ignored the time they wasted in front of the TV
and on the card table If they were smarter then, they wouldn't have wasted so
much time.
6. It’s not worth sacrificing health for success and wealth
We
all want more, but few know when to stop. When you don't have money, money is
the most important thing in the world. But once you have money, it's nothing.
No
one is willing to sacrifice health for money and success, but few are willing
to make the necessary adjustments to protect themselves from potential
benefits.
As
you grow older, you will recall the past and feel like a fool because of you
don't pay more attention to the things that will give you more time to be with
the people you love.
7. Fear of embarrassment and criticism makes you unable to be yourself
You
have only one chance in your life, so you may as well do it! The main reason
why most people fail in life is not to try. We all make excuses to try to
protect our image from others' opinions, but in the end, they are not
important.
This
is the choice you have to make for yourself: who do you want to be? Do you want
to be yourself or what others expect?
8. What you need /Matter is not so important
When
you are young, you want a lot of things because you see that others have these
things, and you think if you have them, life will be better. But things are
things. They don't shape you. Similarly, the property is raw materials that are transferred from one place to another.
Do you think you will care about the
latest Apple phones in ten years? We want things because we are guided by
sales. Now, look around you. How many things are not really needed around you?
In fact, what you need is tools, not things. People only need a few basic tools
to complete their work and bring convenience to life.
9. The longest night will be dawn
Some
things take more than 12 hours, maybe months or even years. But one thing is
for sure. No matter how difficult it is now and how dark everything is, you
should always believe that one day it will be better and that misfortune is
only temporary. This kind of mentality will help you through many difficult
moments in your life.
10. Happiness is a decision
Happiness
doesn't depend on others or their support. It's your own experience because
your reality and expectation are the same. The good news is that you can choose
to be happy, and the bad news is that you have to work hard. Because nothing
worth pursuing will come out of nothing, at least not to the extent you expect.
11. Living in the moment meaning
But
all of this will be fleeting, and every "present" will be the past at
once. How poetic it is! When we think about life, we often look at it as a
whole, but we neglect many details. Many people understand the importance of
"the present" too late and miss many opportunities to seize it.
12. People only care about themselves
Everyone
is the protagonist of his life movie; everyone wants to watch the sunset with
the girl in his dream.
We
all experience life from the perspective of the first person. From birth, you
are the most important thing in your life. You need to protect yourself and
achieve success. What do other people think? Everyone thinks so! It may be hard
for you to accept, but just as you think you are special, so do others.
13. Emotions behind Anger
Fear
is the way to darkness. Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hatred, and hatred
leads to pain. Whenever we suffer, especially for a long time, at first we
think it's all due to external factors.
Try
it. Once we release this emotion, we will find that hatred is just a roar of
anger. Unfortunately, we have been carrying this hatred for too long. Behind
all this is always fear of loss; fear of weakness; fear of letting go. If
you are aware of this fear, you will see its faint shadow and compassion, and then
you can move on.
14. The world is bigger than you think
Everyone
wants to see a bigger world, experience more things, and reveal more mysteries.
There are different people in our world, different cultures, cuisines,
buildings, beliefs, and visions for the future. If the whole world is a book, it
would be a pity to read only a few pages!
15. Life is too short to wait
When
you are young, can you think too much, because life seems to be a long time?
Life
is rich because we compare the past with the future.
Let's
do a little experiment. When you are in your twenties, you think you have at
least three times more time left. But there is another problem, assuming that
the average life expectancy of people is 80 years old.
First,
most people sleep 7-8 hours a night, accounting for one-third. You only have 53
years left, which is not too bad. If you work 40 hours a week on average
between 25 and 65 years old and deduct 10 years, you have 43 years left, which
is not too bad.
But wait a minute, as of 2020, the average person spent five
hours a day on the screen, in addition to meaningless social and entertainment
activities, such as playing cards, which are still increasing.
If you start to
calculate the time-consuming events of each day, such as eating, cleaning,
dressing, driving, and all the trivial things, you will be shocked: life is not long.